Why Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment To Me

Hey my loves! Welcome once again! I hope you’re ready because I’m sure I’ll step on some toes with this subject…but yall know how my blogs are by now: gritty and shameless af. Coming from a woman who cries at weddings because they are so damn beautiful, the idea of marriage is appealing. This doesn’t…

Gretchen Barocio: JesusGirl in Business

Gretchen Barocio Founder of #THEGIRLPRENEUR NETWORK  Who is Gretchen? What is your mission? Gretchen:  “Prior to the creation of #THEGIRLPRENEUR brand itself, I spent 12 years in the corporate arena working for several top fortune 500 companies including the Seattlite favorite, Starbucks Coffee Corporation.  It was meeting Howard Shultz in person in 2001 at Seattle…

What 2016 Taught Me

Hey My Loves!! It may sound very cliche, but 2016 was a year of discovery for me. I learned a lot, blogged a lot, wrote a lot, cried a lot, and shared happy memories with the people I love. I hustled my ass off taking my platform to the next level, meaning I got all…

Stop Letting Society Define Your Beauty

Hey my loves! I have been gone way too long! Life just happened, but it can’t hold a real G down! I’m back and I’m blessed! Anyhoo, as I plan for my trip to Chicago tomorrow (and I still haven’t packed a TING smh), I was on Instagram browsing through hundreds of beautiful people for…

I Got So Much Magic, You Can Have It

Walk in your ways, so you will wake up and rise…   …and that’s exactly my mood after I heard Solange’s new album  A Seat At The Table empowering black magic and reminding us it’s a beautiful time to be black. From the intro “Rise” to Master P spitting lyrical gems, the album is a must!…

My Failed Commit-less Relationships Molded Me

Hey my loves! I’m back once again on this Tuesday morning and the topic for today is commitment. The definition for commitment is a promise to do or give something and be loyal while doing it. I just turned 29 this  month and I did some serious reflecting on my life. I look back on…

Say NO to “Sidelines” and “Situationships”

We have all heard the term “sideline”. Some more than others. But before we get started, let’s discuss the definition: Sideline Chick/Man- a person dating a person who is already in a relationship or has a spouse. Many women and men have been in this position even after they swore to ourselves it would never…

Dear Future Husband

Dear Future Husband, As a single woman, I know I am WHOLE. When you came into my life, I became ONE with you. I was my own soul mate before anybody’s else. Now I am yours for life. God blessed me with you. The wait was challenging and sometimes I would lose my patience before…

Ordinary People: How do you know who will stay in your life?

The million dollar question that is fairly simple, but its hard to understand… How do you know who will stay in your life for good? The answer: You don’t… Life is so complex, yet we are so “ordinary”. There are 7 billion people living in the world. If you meet someone who changes your life,…