Protect Your Ish: People Don’t Care About Your Energy

You can still be a good person with a kind heart and still say no. What I need you to do is read that first sentence again, let it marinate, and start applying it. They say the best way to keep your peace is to take everything  away that causes stress. Let’s face that the idea of that is sometimes impossible, especially if we are … Continue reading Protect Your Ish: People Don’t Care About Your Energy

Hello, December: Lemons turning into Lemonade, and other *tings

Hey my loves, As we wind up the last month of 2018, I can’t help but to think, where did the year ago?!! For me personally, this year wasn’t the best, but it definitely wasn’t the worst! I struggled with a lot mentally, going back and forth fighting my flesh, until I got to a place where I started recognizing my light again. Then there … Continue reading Hello, December: Lemons turning into Lemonade, and other *tings

Open.

It still feels like yesterday. You. The newness. The opposite of me. The something I was missing. The unlimited craves. And the feels. It’s real. Looking at the moments that we share and make, it’s a beautiful thing. The unknown layers being seen. The little things you do that aggravates me. But yet, I’m opening.   The peace in you has me spoiled. Making me … Continue reading Open.

Say NO to “Sidelines” and “Situationships”

We have all heard the term “sideline”. Some more than others. But before we get started, let’s discuss the definition: Sideline Chick/Man- a person dating a person who is already in a relationship or has a spouse. Many women and men have been in this position even after they swore to ourselves it would never happen to them. Some of us play the position knowing … Continue reading Say NO to “Sidelines” and “Situationships”